Leaving Christianity – Oh What A Relief It Is!

Oh What A Relief It Is!Although I left Christianity over 20 years ago, it took a long while for me to erase the doctrines that had been embedded within my consciousness for 15+ years. It was not an easy road.

As Stephen Van Eck wrote on the Deism.com website: “Once sucked into the parallel universe of Christianity, [a person] is too intimidated by threats and rationalizations to attempt escape. Even thinking along alternative lines will induce severe feelings of guilt.”
Writing my book helped tremendously because of all the research and reading I did. Learning how and why certain doctrines of the Christian faith (e.g., final judgment, burning fires of hell, Satan and his demons, the end-times) were introduced into the faith was extremely liberating … and removed a ton of guilt and fear.

I also found out some things about the Bible. As many others, I had been taught the Bible was “God’s Word” (even though the interpretation of what “He” said varies considerably among denominations). Through my studies, I discovered that much of what is in the bible is the result of stories, epics, myths, legends, proverbs, etc. that were passed by word of mouth from one generation to another. This is particularly true of the Hebrew Bible, but intrinsically typical of the New Testament scriptures as well. Can you imagine the burden that was lifted when I found out I wasn’t genetically inclined to sin and thus in need of someone to save me from being human??!?

Contrary to what one might think, the many discoveries I made did not turn me into an atheist. However, I definitely do not believe in a supernatural being who lives somewhere “up there,” who can be manipulated by prayer, or who has a “will.” Rather, my image of “God” is far more encompassing and has nothing to do with religious belief. In fact, I’m extremely reluctant to even use the word “god” because of all its connotations.

In any case, I find my life so much more fulfilling now. Truly, what a relief it has been!

Update 2

Unfortunately I’m still out of commission.

I was doing MUCH better but I had an appointment I couldn’t miss yesterday. Since I’m still not able to get in and out of my car to drive, my other-half drove me. All went well and it felt good to get out of the house.

When we got back home, he asked if I would like to go for a short drive. I guess I was high on the fresh air so I agreed.

Bad move.

Sitting in the car seemed fine and I was enjoying myself. However, being immobile for the 30 minutes or so was NOT a good decision.

So today, not only does my leg hurt, but also several other parts of my body. Actually, my leg was getting better… but it’s difficult to appreciate the improvement since so many other parts hurt.

SIGH.

Of course none of this has to do with old age!!!

Thank you all for your good thoughts. Keep ‘em coming and I’ll whip this thing yet.

Update

In case anyone is wondering why my posts have slowed down, about 2-3 weeks ago, I injured my left groin muscle. VERY painful injury.

Anyway, after going through many throes of pain, I (finally!) discovered that standing up after sitting at my computer for any length of time was a big part of the problem. So I moved to my recliner chair in the family room and started using my mini-tablet to check email, read the news, respond to blog comments, etc. Periodically, I would move my leg to different positions and this helped to keep the muscles more flexible. Thankfully, the process is working and my leg is improving. 🤗

However, this setup is not conducive to blog writing, so until I can get back to my regular computer, I hope you will bear with me. 

Noteworthy

While reading Heather’s latest (2/15/24) newsletter, this paragraph jumped off the page at me. While I admit I have had concerns about Biden’s age –and Trump’s supporters have repeatedly brought it to the attention of voters– to me this was poetic justice.

Further, the public nature of this trial will make it harder for Trump to present himself only through carefully curated appearances. Haberman also noted that Trump, who has repeatedly attacked President Joe Biden as “Sleepy Joe,” appeared to fall asleep during today’s proceedings. “Repeatedly, his head would fall down,” Haberman said. “He didn’t pay attention to a note his lawyer…passed him. His jaw kept falling on his chest and his mouth kept going slack.” (While Trump was nodding off in court, President Biden was meeting in the Oval Office with Prime Minister Mohammed Shyaa al-Sudani of the Republic of Iraq, and then with Prime Minister Petr Fiala of the Czech Republic.)

YES!!

Some Interesting Facts

The following is from a daily newsletter I receive from The New York Times (“The Morning”). I found it to be very interesting reading, albeit a bit unnerving.

What do you think?

(NOTE:  You must be a subscriber to the NY Times website to access the various links throughout the article.)

The nostalgia bump

Author Headshot By Ian Prasad PhilbrickHe is a writer for The Morning.

President Trump left office wildly unpopular. But in the past few years, some voters’ opinions about him have improved. Support for how Trump handled key issues as president — including the economy, and law and order — has risen by about six percentage points since 2020, according to the latest New York Times/Siena College poll. A plurality of voters, 42 percent, now say the Trump years were “mostly good” for the country. Only a quarter say the same of President Biden’s tenure.

Biden says he finds the nostalgia “amazing,” and at a time when Trump is a defendant in four criminal cases, it may seem surprising. But former presidents often enjoy more positive assessments from voters in retrospect. The difference this year is that, for the first time in decades, a former president is running to reclaim his old office.

Today, I’ll explain why voter nostalgia seems to be helping Trump, and how that might change.

A longstanding pattern

Decades ago, the polling firm Gallup started asking Americans what they thought about past presidents. The results revealed a pattern: Almost everyone Gallup asked about, from John F. Kennedy to Trump, enjoyed higher approval ratings after leaving office than he did while holding it, as this chart by my colleague Ashley Wu shows.

A chart shows the changes in average approval ratings for each president from John F. Kennedy to Donald Trump during and after their presidencies.
Source: Gallup | By The New York Times

One explanation is political. As presidents leave office, partisan attacks recede. Some presidents, like Jimmy Carter, become well known for philanthropy or other good works. “You kind of move, as an ex-president, from being a political figure to someone who is above the fray,” Jeff Jones, a Gallup senior editor, told me.

Another explanation is historical. As years pass, popular culture and collective memory come to shape Americans’ views of presidents — especially for those too young to remember the actual events. History textbooks, for instance, tend to focus more “on the good things they did than the bad things, the historical contributions that they made as president rather than scandals or poor decisions or poor policies,” Jones said.

There are psychological explanations, too. Human memory is fallible. People often experience their current problems more acutely than they recall their past ones or think better of experiences in retrospect, which psychologists call recency bias. That can lead to a perpetual yearning for the supposed good old days.

A political boon

In Trump’s case, the result seems to be that voters are focused more on the inflation, record border crossings and overseas wars of the Biden years than on the administrative chaos, pandemic and insurrection of the Trump years. Voters “know about what they don’t like about Biden, and they have forgotten what they don’t like about Trump,” Sarah Longwell, a Republican consultant, told The Times.

A chart shows how respondents’ views of Trump have changed from 2020 to now. A larger share of respondents’ approve of Trump’s handling of the economy, law and order and unifying the country now than in 2020.
Changes of three points or less are not considered statistically significant. | Based on New York Times/Siena College polls in the fall of 2020 and April 2024

Those more positive assessments may be one reason Trump has led Biden in most polls this year. In a Times/Siena survey from February, more than twice as many voters said that Trump’s policies had helped them personally as said that Biden’s had.

Trump’s post-presidency bump may also suggest that voters have forgotten, or forgiven, the turmoil of his final weeks in office. Not all of Trump’s predecessors recovered in this way. Richard Nixon’s approval ratings plummeted before he resigned during Watergate, and they never bounced back. But in Gallup’s polling, voters’ assessment of Trump’s presidency has rebounded to where it was in October 2020, before Trump tried to overturn his re-election defeat and before the Jan. 6 attack on the Capitol.

Will it last?

Approval ratings can change. In particular, they can decline when a campaign begins. Hillary Clinton’s favorability spiked when she was first lady and secretary of state but fell when she ran for president.

To flatten Trump’s nostalgia bump, the Biden campaign plans to run millions of dollars in ads reminding voters what they disliked about Trump’s presidency. One recent spot interspersed video of empty store shelves from 2020 with a clip of Trump wondering if Americans should inject disinfectant to treat Covid. Biden’s approach may already be working; the new Times/Siena poll shows that he has cut Trump’s national lead to just one point.

Democrats have reasons to hope that higher approval ratings alone won’t win Trump a second term, even as Biden’s remain low. In Gallup’s poll, most Americans still disapproved of Trump and how he governed, even in hindsight. And as November nears, voters may focus more on what Trump plans to do if he regains the White House than on what he did last time.

But in an election that’s likely to be very close, even a small afterglow could matter.