“We cannot rationally deny that we will die, but we think of it more as something that happens to other people.”
So said Yair Dor-Ziderman, a researcher at Bar Ilan University in Israel.
From the moment we recognize we have the ability to look into our own future, we come to the realization that, at some point, we’re going to die.
And there’s nothing we can do about it.
Yet while we inherently recognize it’s an event we cannot avoid, we nevertheless put up numerous defenses to stave off thoughts of our inevitable demise.
In fact, Mr. Dor-Ziderman postulates that the reason we confine sick people to hospitals and elderly people to care homes is because we are “death-phobic.” In other words, we try to hide death from view — even though this may very well result in an even deeper fear of death.
Many people in today’s world avoid thoughts of death by getting on the “escape treadmill.” That is, they focus on hard work, spend more time at the local pub, constantly use their mobile phones, and buy more “stuff.” All in an effort to keep from thinking/worrying about death.
So while we may do our best to avoid thoughts of our life’s end, the unfortunate truth is … there’s really nothing we can do about it.